You're not going to like this but....

Its terrible.

To start with there's a progress bar to show that the flash file is loading, when the bar gets full it simply starts all over again, so it gives the users no indication at all of how long they're going to have to wait for it to load.

Navigating between screens is very slow.

What on earth made you want to create a full site in flash, especially something so so simple? It's not giving the user a good experience, and any change of getting on the search engines will be almost none-existent. Search engines cannot read text that's within a flash file, so it'll never read the content of the site.

Every page seems to look different, there's no consistency throughout the site. The navigation moves from page to page, the colours change, actually practically the whole layout changes per page. This leads to a bad experience for the visitor.

Bin it and start again, but don't use flash, there's just really no need for it.
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Web design Peterlee

A web developers blog

I agree. Ditch the flash. Your home is postage stamp size and the site is not well explained.
Your meta is real bad.
robots: NOINDEX,FOLLOW
Do you want to be indexed?
It should be index, follow
keywords: None
No title tag?
No description tag?
Why bother?
You have a lot of work to do. First find out the basic requirements for a website. You seem to have no idea. Sorry to be negative but you have to take the bad with the good. That is what reviews are for. Learn and grow! Good luck.
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